The Neighbour Has Decided She Can Ask for Anything! Now All That’s Left Is for Her to Move In with Me.

The neighbour has decided that she can ask for anything! All thats left is for her to move in next door.

I need a fresh perspective. Heres whats happening: my daughter, Poppy, is friends with a boy from next door, Jack, who is a few years older. I sometimes meet Jacks mother, Mrs. Thompson, but I wouldnt call her a friend.

We start chatting more often because of the children. We meet on walks, and she hands me clothes that are too small for Jack, which he cant wear. I return them and always bring a few cans of orange juice and some biscuits for her child as a thankyou. Then I decide to stop accepting anything from her; its easier to buy things myself and not feel obliged.

Gradually, the quiet strolls turn into an odd relationship. Mrs. Thompson begins to ask me for things regularly. What starts as a daily request becomes: Give me a cup of tea! If someone loves tea, they should buy it themselves instead of begging every morning. She drops by even though I never invite her over. When she sees Poppys toys, she gushes and repeatedly takes a few to play with at her house. She wants everything. She has already taken a lot from us.

She never invites herself in, claiming her mother is ill, even though her mother lives in a separate bedroom. She doesnt hesitate to ask for medication when Jack is sick, requesting items that any basic household firstaid kit contains. Sometimes she even asks for things for herself. I cant understand how anyone lives like that. A simple paracetamol should be on every mothers shelf. She hands over almost empty packets and bottles, and one of those was bought for my baby, which I cant use any longer.

It doesnt stop there. She regularly asks if we have food for Jack. I never ask anyone else! I cook for my baby and thats it. She constantly uses our shopping trolley without asking. She always wants things she doesnt have, and shes never satisfied.

One day her audacity shocks me. While my whole family is ill, she calls to say shell stop by for a cuppa, but shes with Jack. I love children, but Im fed up with other peoples kids wandering into our house like its a shop, rifling through my sons toys and picking what they want to play with. I tell her were all sick and could pass germs to her. I should have told her were not inviting her.

Her visits never start with May I come in? She just shows up uninvited and demands: Give it to me. She doesnt care if Im busy or if I want to see her. It feels like shes taking over my personal space.

I havent called her in ages, nor have I invited her for a walk. Still, she calls me herself, texts me. A friend says I have two options: keep tolerating her rudeness or cut off contact. I dont want a fight; the kids are friends and we live close. Soon well be taking them to school together, and Im clueless about how to confront people.

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The Neighbour Has Decided She Can Ask for Anything! Now All That’s Left Is for Her to Move In with Me.