FAMILY DAUGHTER-IN-LAW
Mum, Im marrying Amelia. The baby is due in three months, my son told me, leaving no room for discussion.
I cant say I was shocked; Id already met Amelia before. It was her age that made me uneasyshe wasnt yet eighteen. And my son still had his mandatory service ahead of him. Still just kids themselves, now insistent on a wedding, with a baby on the way.
Finding a wedding dress for Amelia was no easy feat, with her being seven months along. The bump refused to be ignored.
Once all the wedding festivities died down, the newlyweds settled with Amelias family. Yet, my son visited me every week. Hed lock himself in his room, asking not to be disturbed. Naturally, as his mother, I worried.
One day, I called Amelia.
Is everything alright with Will? I asked.
Of course, why wouldnt it be? replied Amelia, calm as anything.
Amelia, do you know where your husband is at this very moment? I pressed gently.
Mrs. Turner, perhaps youd be best to mind your own affairs. Well sort ourselves out, she retorted, with a cheekiness that wouldnt be the last Id hear.
Sorry to disturb you, I said quietly, ending the call.
Im a peaceful soul by nature, not one for meddling. So I let them get on with their lives, determined not to be a nuisance.
Soon after, Amelia brought little Beatrice into the world. I wasnt terribly fond of the name, so I called my granddaughter Bee instead.
Just after, Will was called up for service, stationed miles from home. For two years while he was away, I made a point to visit little Bee. Every visit, I couldnt help but notice how radiant Amelia lookedstriking, almost worryingly so. Shed enrolled at university, surrounded by temptations, and a part of me wondered if shed wait for Will to return.
I always had the feeling that Amelia barely tolerated me. Whenever I visited, shed sigh, hand me the pram, and send me off on a walk, as if she couldnt bear to have me under her roof. Her eyes alone could wound. There was always a certain coldness, an unmistakable distance. I much preferred to leave their chilly home as soon as I could.
When Will finished his service and returned, everything seemed blissful. Bee grew, Will visibly adored his wife, and Amelia managed the home like a queen. My heart felt at ease. Fifteen years passed like this, full of peace and contentment.
But then, something changed in Amelia. Suitors began appearing left and right. She didnt even try to hide it. Will endured her infidelity for three long years, loving her still, while his heart broke.
Amelia cut deep, mocking Will. I didnt confront hertruth be told, I was a bit scared of her sharp tongue. Her glare alone could send you packing.
Will, is everything alright between you and Amelia? Trouble? I finally asked.
Dont worry, Mum. Well work it out, Will replied, sounding oddly guilty and resigned.
I worried he felt responsible, which was why he put up with Amelias behaviour. Eventually, I gathered my courage and went to speak with her, unable to sleep with all this unrest.
Amelia, may I ask something? I began softly.
Why not ask your son what he gets up to at work, or more specifically, with whom? snapped Amelia. My aunt works there, told me everything. Your precious Will cheated firstso dont blame me!
Goodness, why did I ever get involved? I never said a word to Will. Let things play out as they may. Youll drive yourself mad trying to please everyone.
Shortly after, Amelia and Will divorced. Bee remained with her mother.
Will took to the single lifean endless string of girlfriends: brunettes, blondes, redheads his bed never cold.
Amelia wasted no time either. She remarried almost immediatelyWill told me through tears. Evidently, she was now a devoted wife.
Wills next great love was Joana petite, cunning woman of forty, while Will had just turned thirty-five. He was utterly besotted, eager to please her.
Joan didnt waste time: she wanted a proper church wedding, a flat for her daughter, and to be fully supported. Will bent over backwards for her.
Unlike Amelia, Joan tried hard to befriend me, insisting I call her by her first name, like some close chum. It grated on me, but I dont care for arguments, so I put up with it. The gifts she bought with Wills money collect dust in my closetmy heart never warmed to them.
Joans smile was forced, her words insincere, and it was clear she cared nothing for Will. Shed found herself a comfortable life and lived it with no scruples, making demands and scheming. Whatever Amelias faults, shed shouted at me with honesty and loved Will sincerely.
Joan refused to cook, preferring ready meals and bakery bits. I once commented, Couldnt you make Will a nice soup, dear? Everythings always out of a packet.
Gail, dont try to teach an old bird new tricks, she quipped, and that was that.
Her friends came firstfellow socialites like herself. A weekly trip to a fancy spa, hours whiling away in cafés, endless shopping spreesthat was Joans lifestyle. Any slight discontent, and shed burst into melodramatic fits.
How can anyone live with a wife like that, Ill never understand. Meeting Joan was a misstep, a foolish accident on Wills part.
I find myself missing Amelia more and more often now. Theres plenty to compare. Her roast dinners and legendary trifles put Joans supermarket food to shame. Why did Will ruin things with his first wife? He never could hold onto a woman like that, and I think he knows it deep down. Still, Im grateful Bee hasnt forgotten about her gran, always bringing me little gifts.
To me, Amelia was my real daughter-in-law, even if only in the past. You dont know the worth of what you have until its gone. Joan will always be a shadow in comparison. I pity my sonits clear to me Wills heart still belongs to Amelia, though theres no road back.
In families, the true measure of a relationship isnt in words or gifts, but in sincerity and kindness. Sometimes, we only see the real worth of those closest to us when its too late. Treasure your loved ones and the peace they bringyou never know when youll miss them most.












