Mum, Im getting married! my son said cheerfully one sunny afternoon.
Thats nice, I replied, doing my best to sound pleased, though I dont think I managed much enthusiasm.
Mum, whats wrong? Oliver looked at me, puzzled.
Nothing Where are you planning to live? I asked, narrowing my eyes.
Here, with you! You dont mind, do you? said Oliver. Its a three-bedroom flat, surely well all fit?
Do I have a choice? I countered.
We cant afford to rent anywhere, he answered glumly.
So, I havent got a choice then I sighed, feeling resigned.
Mum, renting nowadays is so expensive wed have nothing left for food, he said. It wont be forever. Well be working and saving up for our own place. Its much quicker this way.
I shrugged. I suppose Listen, you can move in, stay as long as you need, on two conditions: the bills get split three ways, and Im not going to be anyones housekeeper, I declared.
Of course, Mum, whatever you say, Oliver agreed instantly.
They had a modest wedding, and so our little flat became home to the three of us: me, Oliver, and his new bride, Charlotte.
From the very first day, as soon as the newlyweds moved in, I seemed to develop a whole new busy schedule. Oliver and Charlotte would get home from work to find the flat a mess just as they left it, pots empty, nothing cooked everything scattered about, untouched.
Mum, where have you been? Oliver asked one evening.
Well, Ollie, I got a call from the Community Centre they needed voices for the Folk Choir. You know my singings not half bad
Really? Oliver looked genuinely surprised.
Yes! You’ve just forgotten, but I did tell you once. Its all pensioners my age, we all get together and sing. I had a wonderful time, and Im going again tomorrow!
Another choir practice tomorrow? he asked.
No, tomorrow its a Poetry Evening. Well be reading Wordsworth. You know how much I love Wordsworth.
Really? Oliver was sceptical.
Yes! I told you! You never listen to your mother! I chided him, a hint of reproach.
Charlotte just watched the exchange, silent as ever.
After Oliver got married, it was as if Id found my second wind. I threw myself into every club for older folk I could find. My circle of friends grew, and now, besides old friends, new ones would drop by in cheery groups, taking over the kitchen till late, drinking cups of tea with biscuits theyd brought and playing bingo. Sometimes Id go out walking, or be so engrossed in my favourite period drama that I wouldnt notice the children greeting me when they got in.
As for housework, I stuck to principle and kept my hands off it, leaving all the chores to Oliver and Charlotte. At first, they didnt complain, but soon Charlotte began giving me side glances, then quiet mutterings were exchanged, then Oliver began sighing loudly. I ignored all of it, maintaining my lively, age-defying routine.
One day, I came home beaming, humming Greensleeves under my breath. I walked into the kitchen where the young ones were gloomily eating homemade soup.
Good news, my dears! Ive met a wonderful gentleman, and tomorrow were off to a spa together! Isnt that exciting?
It is, they replied in unison.
And is this serious? Oliver asked tentatively, maybe worried wed have another resident soon.
I cant say yet, but after the weekend away, Ill know for sure, I replied. Then I served myself some soup and helped myself to seconds, thoroughly enjoying my meal.
After the trip, I returned rather disappointed. I told them that William wasnt really my type and wed parted ways, but quickly added that my best years lay ahead. I still had my clubs, outings, and chats with friends.
Eventually, when the children came home yet again to an untidy flat and empty cupboards, Charlotte lost patience. Slamming the empty fridge door, she snapped:
Mrs Smith! Couldnt you do some housework too? The flats a tip! Theres nothing in the fridge! Why should we do everything while you do nothing?
Why so touchy? I asked, genuinely surprised. If you lived on your own, whod do all the housework for you then?
But youre here! she protested.
Im not your servant, Charlotte. I spent years running this household; Ive done my share! Besides, I told Oliver from the start I wouldnt be a housekeeper. If he didnt tell you, thats hardly my fault, I declared.
I thought you were joking Oliver muttered sheepishly.
So you want to live here comfortably and have me cooking and tidying up after everyone? No! If I say I wont, I mean it! And if you dont like it, youre welcome to move out, I said, and went to my room.
The next morning, humming Early One Morning under my breath, I put on my favourite blouse, dabbed my lips with red lipstick, and off I went to the Community Centre, because my Folk Choir was waiting for meThat evening, over tea and the clatter of washing up in the kitchen, I heard laughter drifting down the halltwo voices, uncertain at first, joining together. Something had shifted; a new understanding settled quietly amongst the plates and unwashed mugs.
Soon Charlotte poked her head around my door, her expression softer. Mrs Smith, would you teach me that card game you played with your friends last Thursday? I keep hearing them laugh about it.
I smiled. Of course. Come and bring Oliver toohes dreadful at cards, but maybe youll have more luck.
So, we gathered around the battered old table. I taught them tricks, and we swapped storiesmine well-seasoned and theirs new and tentative. Laughter came easier now, the flat filled with warmth and a cheerful mess. The chores got done together, sometimes haphazardly, sometimes well, but always as a team.
One evening, as I watched them cooking dinner side by sideCharlotte rolling dough, Oliver chopping vegetablesI realized the flat was no longer too small or too crowded. It was a nest, noisy and imperfect and gloriously alive.
And just as I was slipping out for Bingo night, Charlotte called after me, Dont let them win too easily! We need to keep up your streak!
I winked and closed the door behind me, heart light. Home, I thought, smiling to myself, is not a place you keep spotlessits the people who keep you company, and the stories you share.












