“I Had to Get My Own Fridge So Mum Would Stop Taking My Shopping” – Anna’s Story of Absurd Family Struggles, Inherited Property, and the Battle Over Money

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Honestly, you wont believe what Kate had to do at home. She had to buy a separate fridge just to keep her mum from taking all her shopping. I know, it sounds ridiculous, but there really wasnt any other option left. Kate told me, The situations just crazy, but its the only way. Im totally fine with selling the flat and splitting the money, but Mum simply wont hear of it.

Kate just turned 24, finished up at university, landed herself a job, but shes not married yet. Life in her own home hasnt been easy, though. She actually owns half of the flat; it used to belong to her dad. When she was 14, both she and her mum inherited equal shares after her dad passed away.

Ten years back, it was a rough time for the family, especially with Dad gone and no breadwinner. Kates mum, Mary, had left her job when Kate was little. She chose not to take maternity leaveher husband earned enough, so they were comfortable. Mary focused all her energy on keeping the house running. But after her husband died, shed cry, saying, Wheres a forty-year-old supposed to find work now? Whod want to hire me, only as a cleaner?

Kate carried on telling me, I got a family allowance, but Mum couldnt resist popping into salons and buying things, even when our finances were tight. At first, her brother helped out, but even he got fed up after a while.

Kates uncle told Mary, You really need to get a job. Ive got my own childrenI just cant support everyone. About a year later, Mary brought home this bloke named Dave. She announced hed be moving in. Mary figured marrying sorted the money problem. Dave did earn a good wage, but he and Kate never saw eye-to-eye.

Dave would say, You just eat all day. Wouldnt it be better if you did the laundry or cleaned up a bit? Whyre you doing homework? Youre thinking of uni? Forget studies, you need a job. Or do you think Ill keep feeding you forever?

Kate felt she couldnt say a word. Sure enough, there was family allowance, but that money always went to Mary. And Mary never stood up for Kate with her stepdad. She was just afraid of losing the only breadwinner around.

Mary asked Kate, How am I meant to cope without him? Just dont argue and do as he says. He puts food on the table.

Despite it all, Kate got to university and found a job. All the while, Dave seemed to treat her like extra baggage, always keeping tabs on how much he spent on her. He just couldnt let it go.

Six months into my job, I could finally afford my own fridge, Kate told me. Put it right in my bedroom, because Dave locked up the one in the kitchen.

Dave said, Youve got a job now? Feed yourself.

Mary just stayed quieta total silenceeven when Dave handed Kate the bills and demanded she pay back everything hed ever spent on her. Later, Dave lost his job. Both he and Mary started raiding Kates fridge for food, and all the bills suddenly landed on Kates shoulders. At first, she paid, but after Dave spent almost a year out of work, Kated had enough and put a padlock on her fridge. Of course, Mary didnt like that, saying Dave had fed them for years.

Kate told her, If you want to help, go aheadIm not the first one in this house whos stuck sharing everything. You should find work, too.

Recently, Dave finally moved out. Marys had enough of a man who doesnt bring in any money. But even now, Kate keeps the padlock on her fridge. She reckons Mary should get a job as well. What do you thinkis she right?

You’re the Older Brother, So You Must Help Your Little Sister — You Have Two Flats, Give One to Her! Not long ago, we celebrated my sister-in-law’s birthday. Alina has never been warm towards me, and the feeling has been mutual. All our relatives gathered for the occasion: grandparents, nieces, and the birthday girl herself. Every single one congratulated my husband on his sister’s birthday and expressed admiration for his supposed generosity. We accepted the congratulations with my husband, but couldn’t make sense of it. We held an envelope with a £100 gift, which seemed fine, if not exactly generous. The real surprise came when my mother-in-law started congratulating the birthday girl. “Mark, your sister’s birthday is today. She’s still single and without support, so as her older brother, you must look after her and ensure her safety. You’re the owner of two flats now, so you should give one to Alina.” Everyone started clapping, and I nearly fell off my chair in disbelief at the audacity. But that wasn’t the end. “Big brother, you’ll give me the one in the new building, right? When can I move in?” Alina chimed in. My husband and I do have two properties – one I inherited from my grandmother, which we fixed up and currently rent out. The rent goes towards our mortgage on the new flat, where we actually live. My husband has no claim to my inherited flat, which I’ve always planned to leave to our child – certainly not my sister-in-law. “Forget it – the flat we’re renting is mine, and the one you’re dreaming of is our home,” I said. “My dear, you’re mistaken,” my mother-in-law replied, “because you’re my son’s wife, and everything you have is shared property under his management.” “I’ve no objection to you helping your sister, but don’t touch my property,” I added. “Mark, do you have something to say?” “My love, you and I will earn more and buy another flat – let’s gift one to Alina, it is her birthday after all,” Mark insisted. “Are you serious?” I asked. “If it ever comes to that, you can give your sister a share of our flat – but only after we file for divorce!” “How dare you speak to your husband like that? If you want a divorce, you’ll have one!” his mother scoffed. “Son, you should pack and come home – you, my dear, are simply nasty and greedy!” After those words, I left that mad house, unwilling to stay amongst people who think they can dispose of my property as they please.

Everything Happens for the Best Margaret Evans—strong-willed mother of Lucy—moulded her daughter in her own image, and Lucy obeyed her every word. Margaret prided herself on being a successful, formidable woman, and constantly demanded Lucy follow her path without deviation. “Lucy,” Margaret would say sternly, “if you want to achieve what I have, you must go exactly where I lead you—don’t even think about straying. Do you understand?” “Yes, Mum,” Lucy would reply. Lucy loved her mother and always tried her best not to disappoint. Margaret longed for her daughter to become her ‘Miss Perfect’. Yet, the older Lucy grew, the harder that became. Kids will be kids—Lucy made messes, broke things, fell over, but at school she excelled. She knew one C-grade would be a tragedy for her mother. “Lucy, how could you get a ‘C’? What an embarrassment to your father and me—fix it, and quickly!” “Alright, Mum. But it’s just one C, it was an accident…” Lucy would try to protest. “It doesn’t matter, Lucy. You must be better and smarter than anyone.” Lucy would fret, but always made good on her grades, leaving school with top honours—no other way would do. Margaret was proud when Lucy got into university with ease. “Well done, my girl, I’m proud of you,” Margaret finally admitted one day. “But keep going just like this.” Margaret Evans ran a construction business—unusual for a woman, yet her iron will surprised even the toughest male tycoons. She never doubted Lucy would join her after university. Lucy longed to breathe freely, considered studying in another city, but to no avail. “You’ll stay under my supervision,” her mother snapped. “You can study here, at our local university.” Of course, Lucy couldn’t protest. In her third year, she fell properly in love. She’d dated boys before, sneaking about behind her mother’s back, but nothing serious. George, the charming blue-eyed blonde from a parallel class, won her heart. Lucy was a star student even at university, whereas George struggled, especially with coursework. One day he stopped Lucy in the corridor. “Lucy, I’m drowning here. Can you help me with this coursework?” “Of course!” she agreed, thrilled to help. From then on, Lucy did George’s coursework for him, and he paid her with his affection. They went out, watched films, dined in cafés. Margaret grew suspicious. “Lucy, have you fallen for someone?” “How did you know?” Lucy was startled. “It’s written on your forehead… Introduce us. I need to know what ’kind of bird’ he really is.” Lucy brought George home. Her parents were welcoming; even Margaret found little fault. But when he left, Margaret declared, “Lucy, he’s using you and nothing more. He doesn’t sparkle with intellect; there’s nothing to talk about. What on earth do you see in him?” “That’s not true, Mum,” Lucy finally argued. “George is ambitious and interested—he loves history. You just overshadow him with your intellect. Not everyone has to be like you, and he’s still young.” “He’s not your match,” her mother insisted. But Lucy held firm. “No matter what you say about George, Mum, I will love and see him anyway.” Margaret looked sharply at Lucy, waving her off. “You’ll see, Lucy, he’s just a nobody.” Lucy persisted, and, after university, married George, convinced her mother had got him wrong. Life proved that ordinary C-students can get ahead faster than straight-A students. That’s how it happened for George: after graduating, he landed a prestigious job, while Lucy worked under her mother’s wing. George had his own flat—his parents gave it to him before uni—so after the wedding, Lucy was glad to finally be free from her mother’s intrusion. But her mother got her a job in her company anyway. One evening, George came home. “Lucy, I’ve just been made department head, on probation. I’ll work hard to prove myself.” Which he quickly did. George didn’t like Lucy working for her mum. “You’ll never achieve anything if you stay under her thumb,” he told her. “Are you really going to let her control you for life? She’s a tyrant, and you’re too submissive.” Lucy hated hearing this, but knew it was true. Eventually, George stopped criticising her, but grew more distant—a relief, she thought. At least he didn’t nag anymore. The main thing was, they were still together. A year passed, then one day George returned quietly from work and said, “I’ve met someone else and I love her. I’m leaving. She’s real, not like you…” For the first time in her life, Lucy lost it. She shouted, argued, smashed a plate and threw George’s phone against the wall, tore up a shirt or two, then calmed down. Watching, George finally said, “So there’s some fire in you after all. Shame it’s too late,” and left for his new love. “I hate you,” Lucy muttered, packed her bags, found a flat, and left. She said nothing to Margaret; she knew exactly what the response would be. For more than a month Lucy managed to hide her new situation, but her mother sensed something was wrong. “Lucy, what’s going on? You look empty. Is something wrong with you and your husband?” “Why do you think that? I don’t have a problem with my husband—because I don’t have a husband anymore.” “My God, I knew it! He left you, didn’t he? When?” “In April.” “And you said nothing all this time?” Lucy sighed and endured her mother’s tirade. “I warned you, at least you’re not his servant anymore. Thank heavens you don’t have a child together. Now, promise you’ll listen to my advice from now on. Understood?” “Mum, everything happens for the best,” Lucy replied, then added, “And I quit working with you. I’m done,” and left Margaret baffled in her office. Lucy resolved to get far away from her mother, knowing she’d never get a break from the lectures or the control. She wandered, unsure where to go, caught a tram, got off at her stop, and promptly twisted her ankle in a pothole. Groaning from the pain, she sat on the curb. “Just what I needed,” she thought. “Are you alright?” a young man hurried over, having missed the tram. He helped her up—her ankle throbbed. “Does it hurt much?” “Terribly,” she winced. “Here, lean on me—” Before she could argue, he swept her up and carried her to his car. “I’m James,” he introduced himself, “and you?” “Lucy,” she replied. At the hospital they found her ankle was only sprained. After a firm bandage and some instructions, James drove her home. “Give me your number, just in case you need anything,” he offered. Lucy agreed. Next day, James called. “Anything you need from the shop? I suspect your ankle’s still bad.” “Some juice, fruit, maybe bread,” she confessed. Soon after, he appeared with not one but two bulging bags. “Good grief, what’s all this?” “We’re celebrating our meeting, if you don’t mind—and don’t worry, I’ll do all the work. By the way, can we drop the formalities?” Lucy laughed—it was easy and comfortable with James. James did the cooking, reheated a kebab in the microwave, poured juice—no wine, he warned, since he didn’t drink. The evening was a delight. Four months later, Lucy and James wed. A year after that, their daughter Sophie was born. When asked where she found such a wonderful husband, Lucy would laugh, “He found me at the roadside… Don’t believe it? Ask him yourself!” Thank you for reading, subscribing, and all your support. Wishing you happiness in life.