He told me I wasnt fit to be a dad, yet Ive raised those kids from day one.
When my sister Maya went into labor, I was elsewhere in the regionat a motor rally. She begged me not to cancel the trip, insisting everything would be fine and there was still time.
Three beautiful babies were born, and Maya didnt make it.
I remember cradling those tiny bundles shaking in the neonatal intensive care unit. My clothes still reeked of gasoline and leather. I had no plan, no clue what to do. But when I looked at Rita, Bella and Kirill, I knew I wasnt walking away.
I swapped latenight rides for midnight feedings. The guys at the shop covered my shifts so I could also pick the kids up from daycare. I learned to braid Bellas hair, soothe Ritas tantrums, and get Kirill to try something other than buttered macaroni. I stopped taking the long raids, sold two motorcycles, and handbuilt bunk beds.
Five years. Five birthdays. Five winters of flu and gastroenteritis. I wasnt perfect, but I stayed. Every single day.
Then he showed up.
The biological father. He wasnt listed on the birth certificates, never visited Maya during her pregnancy. According to her, hed said triplets dont fit his lifestyle.
Now he wanted to take them away.
He didnt come alone. He brought a social worker named Marina. She saw my oilstained overalls and declared I wasnt a suitable longterm upbringing environment for these children.
I was stunned.
Marina walked through our small but tidy house, glanced at the childrens drawings on the fridge, the bikes in the garden, the tiny boots by the door. She smiled politely, took notes, and lingered a little too long on the tattoo around my neck.
The worst part was the kids confusion. Rita hid behind me, Kirill started crying, and Bella asked, Is this man going to be our new dad?
I answered, No ones taking you away. This is just a legal matter.
Now a hearing is a week away. Ive hired a lawyergood, damn expensive, but worth it. My shop is barely hanging on because Im doing everything solo, yet Id sell my last key just to keep my kids.
I didnt know what the judge would decide.
On the night before the hearing I couldnt sleep. I sat at the kitchen table holding a drawing Rita mademe holding their hands in front of our little house, with a sun and a few clouds in the corner. Childlike scribbles, but honestly, I felt happier looking at that picture than I ever have in my life.
In the morning I put on the buttondown shirt I havent worn since Mayas funeral. Bella walked out of her room and said, Uncle Dan, you look like a priest.
Lets hope the judge likes priests, I tried to joke.
The courtroom felt like another worldeverything beige and polished. Vin sat opposite me in an expensive suit, pretending to be a caring father. He even brought a storebought framed photo of the triplets, as if that proved something.
Marina read her report. She didnt lie, but she didnt soften the tone either. She mentioned limited educational resources, concerns about emotional development, and, of course, lack of a traditional family structure.
I clenched my fists under the table.
Then it was my turn.
I told the judge everythingfrom the moment I got Mayas call to the night Bella vomited on my back during a long drive and I did nothing. I spoke about Ritas speech delay and how I took a second job to pay for a speech therapist. I explained how Kirill learned to swim because I promised him a hamburger every Friday if he didnt quit.
The judge looked at me and asked, Do you really think you can raise three children on your own?
I swallowed. I could have lied. I didnt.
No. Not always, I said. But I do. Every day, for five years. I didnt do it because I had to. I did it because they are my family.
Vin leaned forward as if to speak, then stayed silent.
And then something happened.
Bella raised her hand.
The judge, surprised, asked, Young lady?
She stood on a stool and said, Uncle Dan hugs us every morning. When we have bad dreams, he sleeps on the floor next to our bed. He once sold his bike to fix our heating. I dont know what a dad is, but we already have one.
An absolute hush fell over the room.
I dont know if that sealed the decision. Maybe the judge had already decided. But when he finally said, Custody remains with Mr. Desmond Fomin, I let out a breath I hadnt realized Id been holding for years.
Vin left without even looking at me. Marina gave a barely perceptible nod.
That evening I made cheese toast with tomato soup the kids favorite dish. Bella danced on the kitchen table, Kirill waved a butter knife like a lightsaber, and Rita clung to me, whispering, I knew youd win.
In that greasy, exhausted moment, I felt like the richest man alive.
Family isnt about blood. Its about who stays, again and again, even when its hard.
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