He said I wasnt “fit to be a father”but Ive raised these kids from the start.
When my sister Emily went into labour, I was miles awayat a biker rally. Shed begged me not to cancel the trip, insisting shed be fine, that there was still time.
Time that didnt exist.
Three beautiful babies came into the worldand she didnt make it.
I remember holding those tiny bundles in the neonatal unit, still reeking of petrol and leather. I had no plan, no clue what to do. But I looked at themLily, Daisy, and Alfieand knew one thing: I wasnt leaving without them.
Late-night rides became late-night feeds. The lads at the garage covered my shifts so I could pick the kids up from nursery. I learned to braid Daisys hair, calm Lilys tantrums, and convince Alfie to eat something other than buttered pasta. I stopped going on long road trips. Sold two of my bikes. Built bunk beds by hand.
Five years. Five birthdays. Five winters of flu and stomach bugs. I wasnt perfect, but I stayed. Every single day.
Thenhe showed up.
The biological father. Not on the birth certificates. Never once visited Emily during the pregnancy. According to her, hed said triplets “didnt suit his lifestyle.”
But now? He wanted to take them.
And he didnt come alone. He brought a social worker named Margaret. She took one look at my oil-stained overalls and declared I wasnt “a suitable long-term environment for these children.”
I couldnt believe my ears.
Margaret walked through our small but tidy house. Saw the kids drawings on the fridge. Their bikes in the garden. Little wellies by the door. She smiled politely. Took notes. I noticed her eyes linger a little too long on the tattoo on my neck.
The worst part? The kids didnt understand. Lily hid behind me. Alfie started crying. Daisy asked, “Is this man going to be our new dad?”
I said, “No ones taking you away. Only over my dead body.”
And now the hearings in a week. Ive got a solicitor. Good one. Bloody expensive, but worth it. The garage is barely staying afloat because Im juggling everything alone, but Id sell my last spanner to keep my kids.
No idea what the judge would decide.
The night before the hearing, I couldnt sleep. Sat at the kitchen table, holding one of Lilys drawingsme holding their hands in front of our house, with a sun and clouds in the corner. Just kids scribbles, but truth be told, I looked happier in that picture than Id ever felt in my life.
That morning, I wore the button-up shirt I hadnt touched since Emilys funeral. Daisy came out of her room and said, “Uncle Jack, you look like a vicar.”
“Lets hope the judge likes vicars,” I joked.
The courtroom felt like another world. All beige and polished. James sat across from me in a posh suit, playing the doting father. Hed even brought a framed photo of the tripletslike that proved anything.
Margaret read her report. She didnt lie, but she didnt soften it either. Mentioned “limited educational resources,” “concerns about emotional development,” and of course”lack of a traditional family structure.”
I clenched my fists under the table.
Then it was my turn.
I told the judge everything. From the call about Emily to the time Daisy threw up down my back on a long drive and I didnt even flinch. I talked about Lilys speech delay and how I took on extra work to pay for her therapist. How Alfie finally learned to swim because I promised him fish and chips every Friday if he didnt give up.
The judge looked at me and asked, “Do you truly believe you can raise three children alone?”
I swallowed. Couldve lied. But I didnt.
“No. Not always,” I said. “But I do it. Every day, for five years. Not because I had to. Because theyre my family.”
James leaned forward like he wanted to say something. But he stayed quiet.
Then something happened.
Daisy raised her hand.
The judge, surprised, said, “Yes, young lady?”
She stood on her stool and said, “Uncle Jack hugs us every morning. When we have bad dreams, he sleeps on the floor next to our bed. Once he sold his bike to fix the boiler. I dont know what a dads sposed to be like, but weve already got one.”
Silence. Dead silence.
Maybe that decided it. Maybe the judge had already made up his mind. But when he finally said, “Custody remains with Mr. Jack Wilson,”I let out a breath I didnt know Id been holding for years.
James didnt even glance at me as he left. Margaret gave me the slightest nod.
That night, I made cheese toasties with tomato soupthe kids favourite. Daisy danced on the kitchen table. Alfie waved a butter knife like a lightsaber. Lily hugged me and whispered, “Knew youd win.”
And in that moment, grease-stained kitchen and all, I felt like the richest man alive.
Family isnt blood. Its who stays. Again and again. Even when its hard.
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