He said I wasnt fit to be a fatherbut I raised these children from the very beginning.
When my sister Emily went into labour, I was miles awayat a motorcycle rally. She begged me not to cancel the trip, insisted everything would be fine, that there was still time.
Time that didnt exist.
Three beautiful babies came into the worldand she didnt make it.
I remember cradling those tiny bundles in the neonatal unit, my hands still smelling of petrol and leather. I had no plan, no clue what to do. But I looked at themSophie, Lily, and Oliverand I knew: I wasnt leaving.
Late-night rides turned into late-night feeds. The lads at the garage covered my shifts so I could pick the kids up from nursery. I learned to braid Lilys hair, soothe Sophies tantrums, and convince Oliver to eat something other than plain buttered pasta. I stopped going on long tours. Sold two bikes. Built bunk beds by hand.
Five years. Five birthdays. Five winters of flu and stomach bugs. I wasnt perfect, but I stayed. Every single day.
Thenhe showed up.
The biological father. Not on the birth certificates. Never once visited Emily during the pregnancy. According to her, hed said triplets didnt suit his lifestyle.
But now? He wanted to take them.
And he didnt come alone. He brought a social worker named Margaret. She eyed my oil-stained overalls and declared I wasnt a suitable long-term environment for these children.
I couldnt believe my ears.
Margaret walked through our small but tidy house. She saw the kids drawings on the fridge. The bikes in the garden. The little wellies by the door. She smiled politely. Took notes. I noticed her gaze linger too long on the tattoo on my neck.
The worst part? The kids didnt understand. Sophie hid behind me. Oliver started crying. Lily asked, Is this man going to be our new dad?
I said, No ones taking you away. Only over my dead body.
Now the hearings in a week. Ive got a solicitor. Good one. Bloody expensive, but worth it. My garage is barely staying afloat because Im juggling everything alone, but Id sell the last wrench I own to keep my kids.
I didnt know what the judge would decide.
The night before the hearing, I couldnt sleep. Sat at the kitchen table, holding one of Sophies drawingsme holding their hands in front of our little house, the sun and a few clouds in the corner. Just childs scribbles, but truth be told, I looked happier in that picture than Id ever felt in my life.
In the morning, I put on the button-up shirt I hadnt worn since Emilys funeral. Lily came out and said, Uncle Dan, you look like a vicar.
Lets hope the judge likes vicars, I joked weakly.
The courtroom felt like another world. All beige and polished. James sat across from me in an expensive suit, pretending to be a doting father. Hed even brought a framed photo of the tripletslike that proved anything.
Margaret read her report. She didnt lie, but she didnt soften things either. Mentioned limited educational resources, concerns about emotional development, and, of courselack of a traditional family structure.
I clenched my fists under the table.
Then it was my turn.
I told the judge everything. From the moment I got the call about Emily to the time Lily threw up down my back on a long drive and I didnt even flinch. I talked about Sophies speech delay and how I took a second job to pay for her therapist. How Oliver learned to swim because I promised him a burger every Friday if he didnt give up.
The judge looked at me and asked, Do you really believe youre capable of raising three children alone?
I swallowed. I couldve lied. But I didnt.
No. Not always, I said. But I do it. Every day, for five years. I didnt do it because I had to. I did it because theyre my family.
James leaned forward like he wanted to say something. But he stayed quiet.
Then something happened.
Lily raised her hand.
The judge, surprised, said, Yes, young lady?
She stood on her chair and said, Uncle Dan hugs us every morning. When we have bad dreams, he sleeps on the floor next to our bed. Once he sold his motorbike to fix the boiler. I dont know what a dad is, but we already have one.
Silence. Absolute silence.
I dont know if that sealed it. Maybe the judge had already decided. But when he finally said, Custody remains with Mr. Daniel Whitmore,I let out a breath I didnt know Id been holding for years.
James didnt even look at me as he left. Margaret gave me the slightest nod.
That night, I made cheese on toast with tomato soupthe kids favourite. Lily danced on the kitchen table. Oliver waved a butter knife like a lightsaber. Sophie hugged me and whispered, I knew youd win.
And in that moment, despite the greasy kitchen and all the exhaustion, I felt like the richest man alive.
Family isnt about blood. Its about who stays. Again and again. Even when its hard.
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