My mother always thought that Maria would not make a good mother.
– Look at her behavior? She’s got nothing but partying and drinking in her head. Where do you see a woman going to a club almost thirty-three times a week?
– She’s just having a good time,” I defended my wife, though I didn’t understand her ways of having fun myself.
I liked the idea of coziness and quiet family happiness. At first, when we first met, I did not know that, and I thought that Maria was just cheerful and lively. She is always in a good mood herself and will lift it for me.
After three years of marriage I became convinced that this was not the case. It’s hard to live with a woman who doesn’t take anything seriously. All she wants to do is laugh and drink. My mother told me to get a divorce before it was too late. But when I dared to talk, Maria stunned me with the news that she was pregnant.
It was something completely new, interesting, very “family friendly.” I focused on taking care of my wife, and she became less twisted and lazy when it came to going out. The fact that she was not allowed to drink also played an important role, and things got better in our relationship.
For the time being, of course. After the baby was born, things gradually began to go back to normal. We got a nanny, Maria went back to work, and with the office came back corporate parties, old friends, and clubs.
While I was babysitting in the evenings and paying for a babysitter the rest of the time, I had to look up other people’s stories on the Internet and see that my wife was out there firing it up to the max. Mom was right. Maria would not make a good mother or wife. She’s on her own and for herself. She’s not interested in responsibility. I’m fed up, I want a divorce. Let the child better grow up in general mother, rather than watch Maria is always walking around.
